Safety Tips

Last updated 12 Nov 2026

Most members are here for the same reason you are. A few simple habits keep you safe while you get to know someone.

  • Talk on the platform first. Keep conversations here until you are comfortable. Share your phone number only when you choose to.
  • Never send money. No genuine partner will ask you for money, gifts, travel costs or help with an emergency. Report anyone who does.
  • Meet in public. For a first meeting, choose a busy public place, tell a family member or friend where you will be, and arrange your own travel.
  • Involve family when you are ready. Many members find it reassuring to include family early.
  • Verify, don't assume. Badges show only what was checked, such as a mobile number or an ID document. They are not a guarantee of character.
  • Protect your documents. Never share copies of ID, divorce papers or bank details with another member.
  • Block and report. If anyone makes you uncomfortable, block them. Reporting helps us protect everyone.